STRICT PARENTS:
What is the meaning of strict?why some youth is overprotective by their parents?are you like me who experienced this kind of situation?when will I become free?when will i become free to show my real self to those people behind me?when will i hear those genuine laughers without holding some grudge?how i hate this limited actions of mine. how i hate this pretending. How i can tell them that their daughter is mow a lady. A lady who can handle her self well.a lady who can over come trials without their decisions without their own decision. I want but i have no guts. these things is one of my problems, though i am a young lady.Most of the youth experienced that things but in every problems, has a solution. there are two possible places you can go if your parents misunderstood you. first place you can go is on church. Sharing your feelings is one of the way to enlighten our burdens and church is one of the places where you can express your feelings without any judgements the second place you can go is on school. School is a place where you study; but most of the time study becomes a bonding with friends. Those friends whom you can show who you really are. Those laughs, those bondings, and even those tears. They can’t turn away your woes, but I assure you, they can make your problems light. Friends, this is the best; It is the one who help when you feel down and support on you.Everyone, there are some parent that always taking your backs, you might have known that your parents take steps when you are true going to school or you’re going to cut the class. They are always angry when you get home late at night without any idea where are you from, even though it is because of your projects at school. There are some parents that even you ask for permission still they will get mad at you. Even you told them the truth it’s contrary on what they are thinking, like you’re just hanging out with you friend. Those parents that will get mad on you when you get home late. They will say that you do nothing but hanging out. They want you to do household chores like what they are doing before. I’m not sure if I am wrong, but I’m always thinking that they are doing the same thing to us. Those kind of discipline that they’ve experienced on their parents.Parents are strict when you’re against, especially, when you’re not doing what they want. There are parents that sometimes you’re going to something important example you’re going to practise on your church. Before you going on that you must do your job on your house so that may your parent allows you to go on that. When you already finish your work so then you may go and on exact time you’re in house. They will not believe in you when you’re going to lie and you’re not going to give the specific time when you’re going on some where. Even when you’re a graduating students and you’re parent are so strict they are always angry when you are get at home late and they have no idea where you from and you wearing you’re school uniform, they said you’re going on your barkadas and hanging out with them they did’nt believe you when you’re going to explain to them because you’re late at home so explain to them don’t lie believe in your self you will do it explain the truth so they believe in you too. How will I improve the relationship between parent and child?I will improve my relationship to them by appreciating their support though it is hard for the student like me. Because I have a lots of projects and more time to practicing our final project. They are against to me and my will. It is hard for me because i want to get free from them by being strict to me. By appreciating them and their loved for me of course i always remember their guidelines for me, because when you do not follow on them something bad may happen and you might have known that their strictness will mold us into a disciplined person. Though sometimes we are angry with them but we must obey them because they loved us that’s why when were going on something place they didn’t allow us because they know that something bad may happen to us that’s why they become strict at me.
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